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Disruptive Classroom Behavior

Disruptive Classroom Behavior Is your child disruptive in school? While there are many reasons children become disruptive, it is important that parents treat it seriously.

When children are disruptive in the classroom it can cause a lot of problems for their classmates and their teachers. But in the long run, it's the disruptive child herself who is most impacted, on both a social and educational level. So why are some kids disruptive at school? Educational psychologist Pat Moranda says that sometimes it's the classroom environment itself that triggers disruptive behavior in some children. "Often kids who are looking pretty okay at home or can manage in small groups, when they hit a classroom situation with 25 or 30 kids, 1 adult, a lot of structure, and few choices, you start seeing a lot of the behavior problems show up. They can't handle the kinds of rule impositions that a classroom involves."

Moranda adds that almost immediately teachers act upon disruptive behavior if it includes bullying, teasing, hitting and name calling. "The red flag for kids who are exhibiting really serious behavior problems like hurting other kids is usually raised quite quickly."

Moranda adds that what some teacher's consider to be disruptive, others don't. In other words, "it will depend upon an individual teacher's tolerance. Some teacher's are just more tolerant, so sometimes we see kids who have a good year and a bad year, a good year and a bad year, depending upon the tolerance of the teacher."

If your child is being pegged disruptive on a regular basis, it's probably wise to talk to the teacher and get specifics on what the teacher considers disruptive. Also talk to your child to understand why your child is behaving this way. Without realizing it, disruptive behavior may be your child's way of making friends or getting more attention. And disruptive behavior can be a sign that your child is frustrated due to a learning disability or is bored because she is under challenged.

All in all, disruptive classroom behavior needs to be explored because it could signal that something more is going on than meets the eye.

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  • marie
    2011-08-09 9:36 pm Permalink
  • Disruptive 11 year old boy
    Maybe let him take up a sport such as boxing where he can let out his anger without hurting anyone. I hope you find a way to help your son get his life back to how it was. Just let him know you're always there if and when he wants to talk x good luck x
  • marie
    2011-08-09 9:33 pm Permalink
  • Disruptive 11 year old boy
    Sorry to hear this but you cant expect him to be as he was before this happened you need to give him time and ask if he wants to talk about it to see if it helps him come to some sort of terms to deal with and try move on in his own way.This is very hard for anyone to deal with,but at his age its gunna b harder to deal with.maybe you should let him know this wasnt his fault and acting like he is wont help,let him no ull always be ther for him
  • debbie
    2011-03-17 9:06 am Permalink
  • Restless 5 year old
    Dyslexia is not about flipping letters, it is a learning disability that involves the inability to make out/ read/ comprehend even the simplest of words. Read Bringing up Boys by Dr. Dobson. The teacher needs to instruct to all learning abilities. Your son may just be bored. My son is just as you described, a GATE student and he is ADHD.
  • daryl walker
    2011-03-04 5:14 pm Permalink
  • kids
    why do they have the tendencie to bullie
  • Kim
    2011-02-28 6:35 pm Permalink
  • Restless 5 year old
    Hi, my son is very restless in class and disrupts other children and is sent to sit on his own to work most of the time. His teacher even gives him a stress ball. My sister had similar problems with her son and was told he is near dyslexic. he can read very well, writes but can get letters round the wrong way. When I mention he might be dyslexic to his teacher, she doesnt think so and says he is very bright, please could you tell me where help?
  • karen
    2010-10-17 7:23 am Permalink
  • Re: How to get the kid focus on doing homework
    I found it can be so frustrating and seems a waste of your time, when they won't apply themselves to the school work they have to do, don't get to frustrated, give time out for a few minutes, persist, and maybe have a treat of some type to be reconpence for having to do their school work.And praise them when its done.
  • Jessie
    2010-10-02 6:16 am Permalink
  • Re: I dont know where to go for advice
    HI Martha, I would have him assessed asap. I would write letter to the schools director of special education, tell him or her about your conference and in writing ask for the school to do a full assessment of your child. Maybe there is nothing wrong but what if there is and you do nothing? Wait and see is never the right answer.
  • Jane
    2010-04-27 9:33 pm Permalink
  • How to get the kid focus on doing homework
    I've hard time to doing homework with my kid. She is almost 7 years old. She always find some excuse or talk too much during homework time. She always complain about why she has to do a lot of homework. Is this relate to the ages?. How do I get her to focus on her homework.... Thanks Jane
  • Nena
    2010-03-27 2:24 am Permalink
  • Re: son is disruptive
    My son is 6 also and I am trying to figure out what is happening b/c he acts reasonable for his age while at home. I have limited the TV (and has to earn TV time), he changes from one activity to another while home (i.e. quite time, play time, reading time, dinner time, etc.) and does best when he knows what to expect. I have noticed a pattern with his teacher and she comments that many of the kids are disruptive when she is sick or getting over... View More
  • Diana Lawton
    2010-03-16 10:29 am Permalink
  • son is disruptive
    MY SON IS NEARLY 6YRS OLD. HIS BEHAVIOUR IS DISGRACEFUL, ONE MINUTE HE CAN BE FINE THEN THE NEXT HIS KICKING OFF AND KNOWING WHAT HIS DOING! I NEED HELP WITH THIS NOW, I HAVE TO PICK HIM UP FROM SCHOOL AT LUNCH AND NOW STARTING PICKING UP AT 2.30PM. HIS NOT LEARNING ANYTHING, HIS VERY CLEVER AND BRIGHT BOY. I THINK IS GETTING BORED AND NEED CHALLENGING MORE THAT'S WHY HE KICKS OFF COS HE CAN'T GET HIS OWN WAY! X
  • joy
    2010-02-26 12:17 am Permalink
  • Re: Re: Drastic Measures
    hello have you considered food intolerance (not allergies) if you take a look at fedupwithfoodadditives there is amzing information. i kow food intolerance caseu behaviour problems and children who ahve been diagnosed adhd etc have changed lives after the r emovla of certain foods from their eating plan...the intolerance could be to apples etc vegetables as well as the usual dairy etc. Pleae... View More
  • dana
    2010-02-22 6:19 pm Permalink
  • Re: Re: My 5 year old son is angry at school
    i know exactly what you are saying. everything you mentioned, i am going through the same thing. i don't know what else to do. i my son tested and therapy. this only happens at school and i want to know why? if you find any suggestions, please let me know thanks -dana
  • Bad Behavior
    2010-02-22 6:15 pm Permalink
  • Bryce
    that article is exactly right. My son is 6 years old and in First grade and when he get mad or upset, he yells, screams, kicks. we call it "tantrums" and its so bad that he is being either sent home or suspended. he knows exactly what he is doing and he knows how to get that attention. the school is really giving him what he wants.!! he has been tested and had in-home therapy. i do really think he is bored. i am thinking about home schooling... View More
  • debbie knox
    2010-02-19 9:25 am Permalink
  • Re: Re: Son is Disruptive
    Hi my name is Ms.Debbie and I work at a Early Childhood Center dealing with 3yr. olds-I am only an aide but the head teacher's name is Ms.Brenda-We have a little boy who is very disruptive in the classroom and we have tried everything with him. We have talked with the parents and the director of the center has talked with the parents-They say they take away his toys-but what good does that do? He still comes back and is getting worse and the other... View More
  • Erin Robinson
    2010-01-19 6:13 pm Permalink
  • Re: My 5 year old son is angry at school
    This isnt a reply as such but I am having a simular problem with my son at the moment. at home is he good most of the time and is one of the happiest boys you could meet, using his manners well. however his behaviour at school is getting worse and worse, today he hit 6 children and a teacher. his school too have no ideas what to do and are looking at us also though with his behaviour only being bad at school im thinking it must be something happening... View More
  • Tamara Jones
    2009-09-08 8:09 pm Permalink
  • Disruptive behavior
    My son is 6 and within the first week of school his behavior is becoming very disruptive. After a tantrum he lays out on the floor or scratches himself don't know what to do.
  • Kay
    2009-09-05 11:47 am Permalink
  • Re: 5 year old daughter - disruptive and disrespectful
    Our 6 year old has had the same problems settling into school - but now we have a paedeatrician on our side who listnes to all the research we've done and is refferring us to an audiologist (for possible hyperacusis) and an occupational therapist (for possible Sensory Processing Disorder). I knew nothing of these disorders until I went onto an autistic website and saw one woman's description of her son who was violent in class, but not at home - like... View More
  • Amber
    2009-08-30 5:42 pm Permalink
  • Re: 5 year old daughter - disruptive and disrespectful
    from my experience in private school, a lot of the children are snobby brats are your daughter is probably reacting the only way she knows how. i'm sure public schools are the same.
  • m
    2009-05-26 6:15 pm Permalink
  • Re: 5 year old daughter - disruptive and disrespectful
    She's trying to tell you something all right. Stop the fighting. The only control you have is over yourself, not your daughter's father. Your daughter needs both of you to teach her how to behave. If this situation carries on, she will only learn how to intimidate and ignore authority.
  • Toni
    2009-05-08 7:18 pm Permalink
  • Re: 5 year old daughter - disruptive and disrespectful
    I feel your pain. My 5 year old son was and is doing the same exact thing as your daughter. Every time I would pick him up from school I would leave crying. I tried screaming, taking away privelages, field trips. Nothing seems to work. We switched his school and he was doing better but now started to do the same thing again. The new teacher told me that he's a kid and just has some bad habits. One of the worst things we as parents and the old teachers... View More
  • Ricki
    2009-05-04 4:52 pm Permalink
  • Disruptive 11 year old boy
    My son was sexually assaulted in September and since then his behavoiur at school has been very inappropriate, he swears at his teachers and gets into fights with students. He is in councelling, but seems to not be affecting him.
  • Shannon
    2009-02-18 11:06 pm Permalink
  • Re: 5 year old daughter - disruptive and disrespectful
    i also need help my 5 year old daugter got a referral at age 5 what to do
  • Martha
    2008-12-19 2:53 am Permalink
  • Re: A VERY GOOD ARTICLE
    The same is happening with my son. I am tempted to home school but need further information.
  • martha
    2008-12-19 2:52 am Permalink
  • I dont know where to go for advice
    hi ijust had a meeting with my sons teacher who was very nasty with me. She insisted I meet with her and didn't want to meet with my husband. he was in a regular class they placed him in a intergrated class and now they want us to evaluate him. At home he is sweet and loving. he has friends in the neighborhood and everybody likes him. The teachers described a child who rocks and is easily distracted. Although all his grades are high. They... View More
  • Kathy in responce to Lori and Erin
    2008-11-10 3:14 pm Permalink
  • Re: 5 year old daughter - disruptive and disrespectful
    I have a 6yr old, newly 6. She is showing bad behaviors as well. I am separated from her father but this has been since she was 2months old, so it is not new to her. She as well was the favorite every year at her daycare. And NOW at school she is the Bad kid. I hate it. I am not a yeller and not a discipliner after she comes home from school. I pull out the report of days behaviors and after she is done her homework I ask her about her day. I give... View More